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Tuesday, 28 August 2007

  • Becoming an effective writer

    When I was in high school I was intimidated by English classes because I wasn’t a good writer. The subject was not my best. I dreaded days when I knew I had to write essays that were timed. Eventually I got the hang of it towards the end of my senior year but I was still worried about it because I knew that I’d have to be doing a lot of writing in college.

    When college came around I was enrolled in a beginners writing class called writing one. I thought to myself, “Great, I don’t know how I’m going to do this.” As the semester rolled on and I began to write more and more I felt more confident about my writing skills. I was always intimidated by college writing but I learned that one way to overcome that fear is by constantly writing and reading. Even if the writing isn’t perfect or the readings aren’t articles in a newspaper, the fact is, you’re reading and writing to improve those skills.

    My professor in Writing 10 helped me overcome my fear. I learned from him that writing isn’t just something you can crank out and expect it to be amazing. He taught me that it takes practice and the more you practice your writing will get better. There were three parts or so that he believed was part of the writing process. The first was prewriting, the second writing, and then the third step rewriting. The prewriting stage is the one that takes the longest because it is where you gather the information you need to write your paper. It’s good to give more time to the prewriting process because all the information you gather you prime your mind for the paper you’ll eventually write. After writing the paper you go through the last step of the writing process, the rewriting stage. This is the part where you crank out all the grammatical, punctuational, spelling, rules. Basically the final editing before you turn in the paper.

     Becoming a writer isn’t easy so giving it time is important. This way you aren’t turning in a half ass paper.  And it’s completely worth it in the end! J

  • Living with Roommates

    At first I was new to the living-with-a-new-person aspect of college life. Throughout freshman year and up until now I’ve gone through experiences living with other people other than my family. It’s been a different experience because I wasn’t used to the expectations of living with people I didn’t have previous knowledge of.  But I learned that the most important thing about living with people is communicating with them on things that you don’t necessarily agree on with them.

     During my freshman year I found out about my roommate in a letter I received from the housing office. When I met her during move in day I also met my other 4 suitemates. As obvious we didn’t always agree on things and one of the ways we were able to get through our problems was by communicating how we felt to each other when problems did arise. I found out that it’s usually the better way to go so there isn’t any tension build up and it won’t make spending the time with your roommates awkward. Although I still have a hard time doing it because I don’t like confrontation, it’s the only way to go. If you think about it, you are living with these people while your in college and why would you not want to get along?

     Although in my freshman year my roommate and suitemates were pre-chosen for me, as I got to my sophomore year I was able to choose the people I wanted to live with. The majority of sophomores had to move out because there wasn’t enough room on campus for both first year and second year students to live. Now that I’m in my junior year I chose to live with two of my other friends because it would be a little easier on me financially. Although my rent now is $500 it includes all my utilities so I’m paying this flat rate every month. There are some places you’ll go where it depends on the person who owns the house when the rent will be somewhere between $200-$300 but utilities won’t be included.

     Most of the time choosing your own roommates is the best because you’ve obviously were friends with them before and are comfortable enough to share a living space with each other as long as you communicate and adhere to house rules if any.

     I guess for the most part being open, communicating, and having fun is the best way to deal with roommates. It actually gives you the skills necessary to work with people in the real world like confronting someone with problems or learning to just be social. It’s a lot of fun.

  • Picking Classes

    Picking classes isn’t the hard part but deciding what classes to take so that it fits your schedule is the hard part. Every semester I meet with my advisor and she gives me a list of classes to take and from that list I’m supposed to pick at least 4 and schedule them. At first it was really hard to for me to understand how that process worked. When I first got advised for my classes I was asked all sorts of questions about placement exams and test scores that’d place me in other classes I could take. I was a bit overwhelmed. And when I first got my schedule together for my first semester I was really worried that I was going to be behind because some of the classes I was placed into were remedial classes.

     After finding out that in my junior year and finally looking over all my classes that I’ve taken so far and all the classes that will soon be in progress, I realized that I’m not behind at all. In fact it made me feel better that our majors were designed so that we finish in four years, even if I was placed into remedial classes my first semester!

     This semester it was a bit tough for me because I couldn’t decide between taking a chemistry class or a math class. I decided that it would just be best for me to take a chemistry class just because I need that class to get into higher levels of chemistry classes later on. And the math class could just wait till later. It would be my last math class anyways so I wouldn’t necessarily need to take it for any upper division math classes. And deciding all of this just made my schedule for me be a lot better. I’m actually more comfortable with it.

     I worked at Orientation over the summer and I helped a lot of students in the School Natural Sciences pick their classes. I noticed that most of them always asked me “who was the best teacher” to take and “how easy was the class?” Truth is,  classes aren’t easy in college. All professors require excellence of themselves and of their students too. Constantly working hard is the best way. So in helping those students I told them that regardless of what teacher you get, you might as well just take the class because that professor is most likely going to be teaching it next semester so get it over with now. To me I prefer things get done when they need too. But really, it’s all good because not every teacher is what you expect them to be. You either get ones you dislike or ones that are the best at what they teach and make learning fun.

     

     

Friday, 10 August 2007

  • k.i.t. con mi familia y mis amigos

    Most of the time I never call home unless I need cash. nah, I'm kidding I'm kidding. I find myself calling home often than I should. I remember when I first moved into the dorms my mom called me at 8:00 in the morning while I was still sleeping and in her sweet little voice asking me what I was doing, why I was still sleeping, and did I get drunk the night before. Oh dear.. my mother.. How I love her. What I like about those calls though is that if I don't call, I know she will, no matter what time it is.

    Talking on the phone is my favorite when I need to keep in touch with family back home. But when I get super busy I like to chat online with the friends and the fambam. I think my family knows when I get super busy too. I don't call for a while and its usually times during finals and they understand. Sometimes they get butt hurt because I don't call them in time to let them know I'll be super busy. I remember this one time when my dad had called me and I was in the library studying for a midterm. When I picked up my phone he said to me "Finally! Glad to know you're still alive!" Oh daaaaad. Silly guy. And when I told him that I was stuyding for a midterm he was shocked. Not because I was studying but because he didn't know that I'd be having a test so soon in the semester. I miss him. I can't wait to see him soon. [this weekend! yess! Dad and I are close..we're tight.]

    There are other times too that I remember when I would be in the library and my mom would instant message me. We would use Yahoo Messenger and sometimes I wouldn't answer her right away so she would BUZZ me on the instant message. It was soo funny because it just made me feel that although I was far, she could still grab my attention and MAKE me pay attention to her and annoy me with that buzz thing until I responded back.. on freaking instant message!! You would think you could fake paying attention to ur mom when ur so far away, but that didn't change much for me when I went to college.

    These are the moments I experience with my parents while I'm over here and they're over there and they wanna see whats going on with thier little girl. And till this day my dad still hasn't really understood what my shedules are like (even though he has a vague idea) and calls me to see if I'm still alive and my mother will buzz me on yahoo messenger because thats the only way she'll get a hold of me (if I dont answer my phone).

    I never had the intention of making my family feel neglected when I went off to college. Thats why I always tried to make it a point to call them when I was free or talk to them online. Parents loove when they hear from you too. It kind of put you on thier good side. haha

    As far as my friends go I actually only keep in touch wiht 2 of them out of all the people I graduated with. We try to hang out when all of us are in town and its so great beacuse when we hang out we always start from where we left off. Sometimes we don't get to hang out but thats why there's facebook and myspace and AIM to keep in touch. It all works out. Most of the time it depends on you and how often you want to keep those connections with those at home. I admit I'm not the most reliable person to call people back when they say "call me so we can hang out" but I do my best.

Thursday, 09 August 2007

  • I wanna go home! humph!

    A couple more days... just a couple more days and I'll finally be home.

    It totally sucks. I really want to go home and I want go home now. I can't stand being this far away from home sometimes. It drives me mad. Sometimes I even wonder why the hell I even came out here. What would life have been if I went to San Diego State or San Jose State? Everytime I look at my friends from high school and see what they've been up to on facebook it kind of makes me jealous because I want to experience what they're doing at an extremely populated university. Ohhh how I wish... to be in a place similar to a bustling city. Lots of people, fun nights along the hottest strips.. honestly... ohhhh how I wish..

    But all of this is because I'm really homesick right now. I miss everyone at home. I miss my dad and how he always knows when somethings wrong and he'll find a way to make me laugh with his daddy lame jokes that I love. I miss my mom and my little brothers and the cozy apartment she now lives in with all the cute furniture. She's amazing at decorating. The fighting I hear in the background when I'm watching tv and its my brothers fighting over whose going to go on the computer next.. I miss grampa sitting on his couch watching TV and grama reading her book that'll eventually put her asleep. Sometimes she'll be playing poker against her computer instead of reading. I miss the smell of home. The filipino food that my grama Lyn makes. It makes the new house smell sooo delicious. I miss the beautiful french doors in our living room too. The hills I need to drive through to get to dad's house.. the 2 different freeways I take to get to mom's.. The busiest street ever with so many stop lights and stupid drivers to drive behind to get to grama's house and slightly passing my alma mater, Marshall High at the same time.

    I don't know how I deal with it at times. My friends keep me busy and so does work. The fall semester hasn't started yet and my brain is dieing for stimulation right now. I can't wait for school to begin. I just need to go home for a while and be. It's just that time that I need to be with my fambam. Miss them oh so much! These next two weeks are gonna be amazing. I can't wait.

    Then again I wouldnt have it any other way. I really wouldn't. I'm proud of my school.




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