At first I was new to the living-with-a-new-person aspect of
college life. Throughout freshman year and up until now I’ve gone through
experiences living with other people other than my family. It’s been a
different experience because I wasn’t used to the expectations of living with
people I didn’t have previous knowledge of.
But I learned that the most important thing about living with people is
communicating with them on things that you don’t necessarily agree on with them.
During my freshman year I found out about my roommate in a
letter I received from the housing office. When I met her during move in day I
also met my other 4 suitemates. As obvious we didn’t always agree on things and
one of the ways we were able to get through our problems was by communicating
how we felt to each other when problems did arise. I found out that it’s
usually the better way to go so there isn’t any tension build up and it won’t
make spending the time with your roommates awkward. Although I still have a
hard time doing it because I don’t like confrontation, it’s the only way to go.
If you think about it, you are living with these people while your in college
and why would you not want to get along?
Although in my freshman year my roommate and suitemates were
pre-chosen for me, as I got to my sophomore year I was able to choose the
people I wanted to live with. The majority of sophomores had to move out
because there wasn’t enough room on campus for both first year and second year
students to live. Now that I’m in my junior year I chose to live with two of my
other friends because it would be a little easier on me financially. Although
my rent now is $500 it includes all my utilities so I’m paying this flat rate
every month. There are some places you’ll go where it depends on the person who
owns the house when the rent will be somewhere between $200-$300 but utilities
won’t be included.
Most of the time choosing your own roommates is the best
because you’ve obviously were friends with them before and are comfortable
enough to share a living space with each other as long as you communicate and
adhere to house rules if any.
I guess for the most part being open, communicating, and
having fun is the best way to deal with roommates. It actually gives you the
skills necessary to work with people in the real world like confronting someone
with problems or learning to just be social. It’s a lot of fun.
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